Category Archives: Ability

Making the Right Decision for Success

Whenever the Olympics come around, the spotlight shifts to our sporting legends, and we celebrate their past victories. Here in Australia, the media loves to bring back those champions who made history. They stand tall at receptions, interviews, and special events, honored and respected like royalty. But here’s the truth: for some of these athletes, their moment of glory was over 40 years ago. Since then, life hasn’t exactly been a story of one success after another. Some of them haven’t achieved anything remarkable since their big win. Yet we still celebrate them, not because of what they’ve done recently, but because of that one moment when they got it right.

Now, think about that for a second. You can make a choice, take action in one moment, and that decision can continue to bless you for the rest of your life. If you’re in a great relationship today, it’s because of choices you made in the past. If you’re succeeding in business, it’s because of the decisions you made and the risks you took along the way.

And it all starts with a single moment, just like the day you step up to the plate in a baseball game. You know that feeling, don’t you? The ball is coming at you fast, and you’ve got a split second to decide—swing or hold back? That decision could be the difference between a home run and a missed opportunity. Just like a game-winning hit can change everything for your team, a right decision in life can open up opportunities you never imagined. But if you let the moment pass, you could miss out.

Let me tell you a story. Take Joe Carter, for instance. In 1993, during Game 6 of the World Series, Joe stepped up to the plate for the Toronto Blue Jays with everything on the line. The series was tight. His team was down by a run. It was the kind of pressure that can make or break an athlete. But Joe didn’t flinch. He saw his pitch, made a decision, and swung. The ball flew into the stands for a home run, and that hit won the World Series for his team. That’s the power of a single moment. One decision, one swing, changed everything.

And let me tell you, life works the same way. You might be waiting for the right pitch, standing at a crossroads, unsure of whether to swing or not. But when the right opportunity presents itself, you’ve got to go for it. You’ve got to trust yourself and take that shot. Everyone remembers Joe Carter’s home run, not the strikes he missed in other games. Just like in life, what matters is that you got it right when it counted.

Here’s another story for you. When Derek Jeter first started with the New York Yankees, he didn’t get it right every time. In fact, there were plenty of moments when he struck out. But what set Jeter apart was that he kept showing up, kept swinging, and when the game was on the line, he delivered. He knew that one great hit could change everything. And it did. Jeter became one of the greatest players in the history of the game, not because he was perfect, but because he seized the moment when it mattered most.

So, let me ask you—what’s your moment? What decision is in front of you right now? Maybe it’s something in your business. Maybe it’s something personal. Whatever it is, you’ve got to step up to the plate, trust your instincts, and swing for the fences. Because just like that gold medal athlete or that baseball hero, you’ve got greatness inside you. You’ve got the power to make a decision today that will keep blessing you for years to come.

It doesn’t matter how many times you’ve struck out in the past. What matters is that you get it right when the moment comes. And when you do, the doors will open for you, just like they did for that young baseball player who finally hit the home run of his career. Because people love a winner, and the world opens up when you show you can deliver.

So, get out there. Don’t let fear or doubt hold you back. The next pitch is coming, and you’ve got the power to knock it out of the park. Make that decision, take that swing, and watch how one moment can change everything for you.

Overcoming a Gambling Addiction: A Detective’s Story

The Cruise Mistake.

Kamala, a retired detective turned life coach, and John, her husband and a motivational speaker, lived a cozy life in San Francisco.
They decided to take a break—a cruise to the Bahamas, hoping to relax. The plan?
Soak up sun, eat too much, and avoid the onboard entertainment.

But the cruise had a casino. And John, curious as ever, decided to try his luck.

“Just a few games,” he said, grinning. Kamala gave him a look—half amusement, half warning.

“Remember, the house always wins,” she replied, smirking. John laughed it off, diving into poker and slot machines.

Kamala wandered by occasionally, watching John’s wins and losses. She wasn’t interested in gambling, but she loved watching people. And people in a casino? Pure comedy. Faces went from hope to despair faster than a roller coaster.

On the last day, Kamala overheard a couple at the buffet. They’d lost all their money gambling. “Maybe we should take away the cabin tip,” one said. Kamala almost choked on her coffee. “Desperate times, huh?” she thought.

The cruise ended, but John’s gambling bug had just started.

Chapter 2: The Pattern Unfolds

Back home, things felt normal—at least at first. John got back to his motivational speaking gigs, Kamala returned to her coaching clients, and life rolled on. But then Kamala started noticing something odd.

John’s business trips started aligning with casino states. Vegas, Atlantic City. “Coincidence?” Kamala wondered. She asked John about it casually one night.

“Another conference in Vegas?” Kamala asked over dinner. “What’s the speech this time? ‘How to lose gracefully’?”

John chuckled, but Kamala’s detective brain was in overdrive. She started tracking his trips, noticing his excitement when he talked about work. But there was something off—a gleam in his eye that wasn’t about public speaking.

One night, John came home late, smelling faintly of stale smoke and hotel carpet. Kamala raised an eyebrow. “New cologne? Eau de Casino?”

John shrugged it off. “Networking’s tough.”

“Sure,” Kamala said, sipping her tea. “Networking with a slot machine.”

Chapter 3: The Investigation

Kamala couldn’t ignore it any longer. She dug through their credit card statements, piecing together John’s travel expenses. The charges were clear—casino ATMs, room service, drinks at odd hours. Kamala sighed. “He’s playing poker with our savings,” she muttered.

She confronted him one evening. John sat on the couch, scrolling his phone. Kamala dropped a stack of statements in his lap. “Explain this,” she said, calmly.

John looked up, his face a mix of surprise and guilt. “It’s not what it looks like,” he started, but Kamala cut him off.

“It looks like you’re betting the house,” she replied. “And losing.”

John confessed, his voice low. “It started on the cruise. Just a game, you know? But then…I don’t know. I kept thinking, next time I’ll win it back.”

Kamala nodded. She’d seen this before in her detective days—smart people making dumb choices. “You’ve fallen into the trap,” she said. “But don’t worry. We’re gonna get out of it.”

Chapter 4: The Road to Recovery

Kamala wasn’t just a retired detective; she was a fixer. And now, John was her next project. She found him a recovery group that blended Gamblers Anonymous with Stoic philosophy—mixing ancient wisdom with modern support.

John attended his first meeting reluctantly. “Welcome to Serenity Unleashed,” said the group leader. “We’re here to help you break free from false hope.”

John’s eyes widened. He’d been chasing wins, but he needed serenity. The group taught him to focus on what he could control and let go of the rest. Kamala watched from the sidelines, proud of John’s progress. But she couldn’t resist some playful jabs.

“So,” she said one day after his meeting, “how’s the stoic stuff? Learning to lose with grace?”

John smiled, rolling his eyes. “I’m learning to win by not playing.”

Kamala laughed. “Now you’re getting it.”

Chapter 5: The Wise Comeback

Months passed, and John’s gambling urges faded. He spoke at conferences, not as a gambler but as a survivor. His speeches were raw, funny, and honest. “I lost a lot chasing the next big win,” he’d say. “But I gained everything when I stopped chasing.”

Kamala, always by his side, turned John’s story into a lesson for her life-coaching clients. “Control what you can,” she’d advise. “And don’t bet your happiness on things you can’t.”

John and Kamala found their rhythm again, their bond stronger than ever. They turned a stumbling block into a stepping stone, finding humor and wisdom in the chaos.

One evening, sitting on their porch overlooking the Golden Gate, Kamala nudged John. “You ever miss the thrill?”

John grinned. “Not really. I’ve got all the excitement I need right here.”

Kamala laughed, sipping her wine. “Well, aren’t you a philosopher now?”

“Just a recovering gambler,” John replied. “One with a very wise wife.”

And with that, they raised their glasses—celebrating serenity, resilience, and the kind of luck that doesn’t come from a casino.

How to Boost Amazon Book Sales: Lessons in Building Community

Chapter 1: The Struggle

Sue and Josh stared at their Amazon book sales chart. The flat line mocked them daily. They had written good books—or so they thought. But no one was buying. Sue’s romantic comedies were stuck in a dark corner of the internet, and Josh’s self-help guides were gathering virtual dust.

One day, Bill, their life coach, showed up. “Have you seen Jacques lately?” Bill asked cryptically. Sue and Josh stared blankly. “Forget it,” Bill sighed. “You need a plan. A good one.”

Josh scratched his head. “I can do anything through the Anointed One who infuses me with strength,” he muttered, quoting some random thing he’d heard on a podcast. Sue rolled her eyes. Bill smirked. “You need more than quotes, buddy.”

Bill’s assignment: Come up with five ideas, try them, and report back. So, they brainstormed like it was the only thing keeping them from flipping burgers again.

Chapter 2: The Plan

Josh and Sue’s five brilliant ideas:

  1. Run Ads Everywhere: Social media, Amazon, maybe even on that weird radio station that only plays polka.
  2. Launch a Book Club: They would host discussions about their own books. Genius.
  3. Give Books Away: Free books would lead to more sales, right? Right?
  4. Email Newsletter: Because people love spam, apparently.
  5. Author Collaborations: Work with other struggling authors to cross-promote. Misery loves company.

Bill nodded. “Solid plan. Now, do it.”

Josh was pumped. “We’re redeemed from failure!” he declared, like a televangelist. Sue just wanted lunch. They dove into their strategy, clueless about the comedy of errors about to unfold.

Chapter 3: Results May Vary

A year passed. They sat in Bill’s office with stacks of data, coffee-stained notebooks, and an odd sense of dread.

Ads: Total disaster. They spent more on ads than they made in sales. “There was too much money in the drawer for me to leave without a key lying around,” Josh lamented, completely out of context but somehow fitting.

Book Club: Ten attendees, all named Josh. Three of them were actually bots.

Free Books: Thousands downloaded, but zero reviews and even fewer sales. “You would have had broken peace,” Bill noted. “And no confidence.” Josh didn’t know what that meant, but it sounded accurate.

Newsletter: One response, from Josh’s mom. She unsubscribed immediately.

Collaborations: It was like a group therapy session for unsuccessful authors. No one bought anything, but at least they cried together.

Bill sighed. “Sometimes He will, sometimes He won’t,” he said, whatever that meant. Josh and Sue’s faces fell. “Well,” Josh said slowly, “How would you know it’s God’s will for us to succeed?” Sue glared. Bill just blinked.

Chapter 4: A New Idea Emerges

Bill leaned back in his chair, looking like a man with a secret. “You tried everything but one thing,” he said mysteriously.

“What?” Sue and Josh asked in unison.

“Community. You need to stop selling and start connecting,” Bill said. Josh made a face like he’d just bitten into a lemon.

“What did He say?” Sue whispered. Bill ignored her. “You don’t have a sales problem. You have a people problem.”

“Is this a Bible study or a business meeting?” Josh quipped. But Bill was on a roll. “His Church will never lack the hands or resources to accomplish His will on earth,” Bill preached. Josh nodded like he understood. He didn’t.

Bill’s new idea: an online community where readers could talk, vent, and suggest book ideas. No sales pitches, just honest interaction. Sue shrugged. They had nothing left to lose.

Chapter 5: The Big Breakthrough

The community idea worked like magic. Readers loved it. They weren’t just buying books; they were connecting with Sue and Josh. Sales shot up, reviews rolled in, and suddenly, Sue was doing podcasts, and Josh was giving life advice that people actually wanted to hear.

A year later, they were invited to speak at an online conference about Amazon book sales. Sue and Josh faced the camera nervously.

Josh opened, “You’ve heard about ads, email lists, and freebies. But we’re here to tell you: that’s not it.”

Sue added, “The real key? People want to be seen. They want connection, not a sales pitch.”

Then Josh dropped the bombshell. “Here’s the thing no one tells you. The world is waiting, but we can breathe a little easier now. You don’t sell books. You make friends.”

The crowd went wild. Sue and Josh had discovered something obvious, yet groundbreaking. They shut the laptop with a grin. For once, their success wasn’t swallowed up by the world—it was built on it.

“God’s wireless,” Sue whispered. Josh blinked. “What?”

“Never mind,” she said, smiling. “We finally figured it out.”