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Dame Valerie Adams: From 5 to 10 in Life and Sport

Reaching for the Stars: The Belief Journey of Dame Valerie Adams

Dame Valerie Adams, one of New Zealand’s most celebrated athletes, was not always destined for greatness. If she had rated her early life, it might have been a 5 out of 10 — potential present, but hidden behind hardship. Born to a large family in Auckland, she faced overwhelming challenges: the loss of her mother when she was just 15, limited resources, and a future that looked uncertain. Valerie could have accepted a life that stayed safely in the middle — average, predictable, unremarkable.

But the number 10 beckons the brave.

It speaks of completion, mastery, stepping into fullness. The number 10 whispers: You were made to finish the race you began.

Valerie’s transformation started with a shift in belief. When a school coach noticed her raw power and encouraged her to try shot put, she listened. Not because she already believed she could be the best — but because she decided to believe that she could become more than what life had handed her.

Every throw was a declaration: My story is rising.

She trained relentlessly — early mornings, late nights, pushing her strength beyond its limits. At first, her progress was slow. A 5 turned into a 6. A 6 into a 7. But belief compounds. It multiplies momentum.

Our ten fingers help us grasp the world around us. Valerie used hers to grip the heavy sphere that would become the symbol of her breakthrough. Each spin, each release carried her closer to the life she envisioned — a life that felt like a 10.

As she stepped onto the world stage, something extraordinary happened. She didn’t just compete — she dominated. Multiple world championships. Paralympic medals as a coach and mentor. Gold at the Olympic Games. Recognition as one of the greatest female shot putters in history.

Yet the most powerful part of her story is what happened behind the medals.

Valerie faced surgeries, personal losses, and moments where doubt could have crushed her momentum. But when the number 10 becomes your identity — when you commit to completing what you started — disappointment doesn’t define you; it refines you.

Like the noble gases with their “magic number” of 10 electrons forming perfect stability, Valerie reached a state of balance and strength — not because her life was easy, but because she believed it could be complete.

She became a champion not only in sport, but in spirit.

Today, Dame Valerie Adams stands as living proof that a mid-range life score is not a verdict — it is a starting point. A place where belief waits to be awakened.

A 5 out of 10 life is not the end of the story.

It is the moment before the rise.

Her journey invites you to ask:
What number are you settling for — and what number are you meant for?

Valerie believed she was made for more.

And when belief rises, life follows.

Your turn toward 10 begins the moment you say:
I will not stay where I started.

Rising Toward 10: The Transformation of Oprah Winfrey

Before Oprah Winfrey became one of the most influential women in the world, her life was not a “10.” It wasn’t even close. If she were to score her early years, she might have given them a 4 out of 10—survival, not success. Oprah was born into poverty, abused as a child, and shuffled between households where love was present but stability often was not. Her schooling was inconsistent, and her confidence wavered under the weight of rejection and trauma. Life seemed stuck in the single digits—small dreams, small expectations, small belief.

But the number 10 holds a secret: it is both an ending and a beginning. It marks the point where a cycle has been completed and a new one begins. For Oprah, her transformation started with a shift in belief. She dared to think: What if my life could be more? What if I could upgrade my story?

Her belief became her foundation. She decided that her voice mattered—not because others told her so, but because she chose to believe it. She began speaking on radio, then television, leaning into authenticity instead of imitation. Where many tried to fit inside the mold of what a host “should” be, Oprah allowed her compassion, vulnerability, and curiosity to guide her. Belief took her from a 4 to a 5, then a 6, and eventually far beyond.

What changed? Not the world around her—at least not at first. She changed. Her belief system changed. She understood that the number 10 was not just a score, but a symbol: the moment when inner completeness allows outer transformation.

Our ten fingers gave humanity a way to count. They taught us cycles and systems. In the same way, Oprah used her hands—her work, her giving, her persistence—to build a new life. With each step she took in faith, she added a new point to her score: education, opportunity, courage, purpose. Eventually, her life didn’t just reach a 10—she built a life that allowed others to reach their own tens as well.

Like the noble gases with their “magic number” of 10 electrons bringing stability, Oprah found balance in helping others. The success of The Oprah Winfrey Show wasn’t just ratings; it was the power of healing conversations, emotional breakthroughs, and shared humanity. She created a space where completeness was possible, even for those who had broken beginnings.

The number 10 reminds us that we are called to more—that endings create room for rebirth. Oprah’s story is proof that perfection isn’t about flawlessness; it’s about fullness. A full life. A life believed into existence.

You may feel like your story is a 4, 5, or 6 right now. But the number 10 isn’t waiting for you at the finish line. It starts the moment you decide your score can rise. When belief expands, so does life. Every thought becomes a step upward. Every act of faith becomes a point in your favor.

Oprah discovered the magic of 10. And so can you.

The Hidden History of Coober: Opals and Secrets

Coober, a town carved out of the red Australian desert, wasn’t always what it is today. Its history is buried in the same sand that hides opals, those shimmering stones that have lured prospectors for over a century.

The land knew people long before any miner set foot there. Oral history hints that the people who walked these lands understood the earth. They knew where opals lay but had little interest in them. Their concerns were more grounded: food, water, survival. But that would change, and it would be the outsiders who valued what glittered beneath their feet.

In 1915, the first opals near Coober were found by a gold prospector. His name was Robert McKinnon. He wasn’t looking for opals; his eyes were set on gold. But fate had other plans. The rocks he found changed everything. Soon after, opal fever gripped the area.

Word spread quickly, and people came. After World War I, soldiers, hardened by conflict and in need of work, found their way here. Many were drawn to the mines, searching for a new beginning. The world had just gone through a great war, and the promise of wealth—buried beneath the barren landscape—was enough to make men dig.

The town grew. It wasn’t just Australians anymore. Following World War II, Southern and Eastern Europeans arrived in droves. They came with stories of their own, fleeing war-torn homes in search of a better life. They dug deep, side by side with returning soldiers, seeking fortune and solace in the hard desert ground. Refugees and veterans alike lived in makeshift shelters, finding comfort where they could.

Not all who came were men. Among the settlers was a woman named Ella Moss. Ella wasn’t interested in opals at first. She arrived in Coober to follow her husband, David, a miner with grand dreams. He was one of many who thought the land would make him rich. Ella didn’t believe it.

“David, why here?” she would ask him. “There’s nothing but dust and stones.”

“Maybe that’s all we need,” he would reply, eyes always scanning the horizon for the glint of opal.

But Ella saw more than the desert. She spent her days talking to the older women of the town, listening to their stories. She learned the rhythms of life in Coober. While David dug, she observed. She noticed things others didn’t—like how the desert changed colors at dawn and dusk, and how the people of the land moved with it. She wondered about the hidden stories underfoot, stories that hadn’t yet been unearthed.

One day, in 1945, while walking along the ridges, Ella stumbled upon something unusual. She wasn’t looking for opals, but she bent down to inspect the ground. The stone shimmered in the sun. She knew enough from watching the miners to recognize it for what it was. An opal.

Ella told no one. She returned to that spot each day, quietly uncovering more. She didn’t tell David. Instead, she marked the place with a simple pile of stones. She’d wait, she thought. Something in her gut told her that timing was important.

Weeks passed. David’s mine was running dry. The town murmured of a downturn. Miners were beginning to leave in search of better luck elsewhere.

One evening, over a quiet dinner, David sighed. “Maybe it’s time to move on, Ella.”

Ella sipped her tea, watching him carefully. “Not yet.”

David blinked. “Why not?”

Ella set down her cup. “There’s something I want to show you.”

The next morning, they walked to her secret spot. She led him to the pile of stones, nudging them aside with her foot. Beneath them was a large opal. David’s mouth dropped.

“How did you…?” he stammered.

Ella shrugged. “I listened. And I watched.”

That discovery changed their lives. Word spread, and soon the miners returned. The town flourished once more. Ella became something of a legend, though she never sought fame. People would ask her how she found that opal, and she would always say the same thing: “I listened.”

But what no one knew was that Ella had found something else that day. Buried deeper in the sand, far beneath the opals, was a map. Hand-drawn, old, with faded markings. She never told anyone about it, not even David. It wasn’t a map to more opals, as she first thought. It was something stranger. Ella spent years deciphering it in secret. She couldn’t make sense of it, but she kept it hidden, hoping one day she might understand.

One night, decades later, after David had passed, an old miner came to her door. His face was weathered, eyes clouded by time, but he moved with purpose. He sat across from Ella at her small kitchen table.

“I heard you found a map,” he said without preamble.

Ella’s hands trembled slightly. “How do you know about that?”

He smiled, but it didn’t reach his eyes. “The land speaks to those who listen, Ella. You’ve been listening a long time.”

She said nothing, unsure of what to make of his words.

“You’re not the first to find it,” he continued. “And you won’t be the last.”

Ella leaned forward, her heart racing. “What does it lead to?”

The old man stood, leaving her question hanging in the air. “Sometimes,” he said, heading for the door, “it’s not about what you find. It’s about what you choose to leave buried.”

And with that, he disappeared into the night, leaving Ella with more questions than answers.