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She Married Quickly in Bali

Portland, Maine, grew from a modest fishing settlement into a vibrant coastal hub. Its story begins in the 1600s when settlers arrived seeking fortunes on the Atlantic. The sea shaped everything—economy, culture, and life rhythms. Casco Bay was their lifeline. Early settlers built homes of timber, traded fur, and learned the currents.

By the 1800s, Portland was thriving. The waterfront bustled with activity. Ships carried goods from Europe, the Caribbean, and beyond. Fishermen, merchants, and craftsmen shaped its identity. Yet the city endured fires, storms, and wars. Each time, it rebuilt stronger. Its red-brick buildings still echo tales of perseverance.

Modern Portland is small but dynamic. Its population of 68,000 enjoys a walkable downtown. Cobblestone streets mix the past with the present. Bar Futo, a Japanese-inspired eatery, represents the city’s global taste. Owner-chef Jordan Rubin sources seafood from nearby waters. “We walk to the pier for fish,” he said.

One recent event captured the town’s essence—the story of Jenny Monroe. A 25-year-old local woman, Jenny worked at a bakery in the Old Port. Her life was simple: mornings at the oven, afternoons walking the waterfront. Then, her life changed overnight.

Jenny bought a lottery ticket on a whim. She never expected to win. When the numbers were announced, her ticket matched. She’d won $2 million. The news spread fast. “Jenny, the baker millionaire,” people joked.

But Jenny surprised everyone. She didn’t buy a mansion or a luxury car. Instead, she booked a flight to Bali. “I need a break from the familiar,” she said. Her family was stunned. “Why Bali?” her mother asked. “Why not?” Jenny replied.

In Bali, Jenny met David. He was American but had lived there for years. They crossed paths at a market. David was a crypto trader and spoke passionately about digital currencies. Their connection was immediate. Within weeks, they married in a small ceremony. Jenny called home to share the news.

“You’re married?” her brother asked. “Already?”

“Yes,” Jenny said. “David’s coming home with me.”

Jenny’s family reacted with a mix of shock and worry. Her mother was skeptical. “You barely know him,” she said. Jenny’s brother was more direct. “This is reckless,” he said. Jenny defended her decision. “I know what I’m doing,” she insisted. Her father, always the peacemaker, said, “Give them a chance.”

When Jenny and David returned, her family tried to be supportive. They invited David to family dinners and included him in their routines. At first, things seemed promising. David joined Jenny’s father on fishing trips and bonded over shared stories. Her mother, though cautious, began to warm up. “He’s trying,” she admitted.

But cracks began to show when David’s crypto trades faltered. One day, Jenny discovered that he had lost a significant portion of her lottery winnings. She confronted him. “Why didn’t you tell me?” she asked. David looked defeated. “I thought I could fix it before you found out,” he said.

Jenny turned to her family for support. Her mother was furious. “I told you this was a mistake,” she said. Her brother agreed. “You need to cut him off,” he said. Her father, however, urged caution. “People make mistakes,” he said. “The question is whether he’s willing to make it right.”

Jenny decided to separate from David. She stayed with her parents while she sorted her thoughts. David, meanwhile, spiraled into guilt and despair. One icy evening, while driving to clear his head, his car skidded on a patch of black ice and hit a tree. He was rushed to the hospital in critical condition.

When Jenny got the call, she was overwhelmed. Despite their troubles, she went to see him. At his bedside, David whispered, “I’m sorry for everything. I just wanted to build something for us.” Tears filled Jenny’s eyes. Seeing him so vulnerable, she realized she still cared. “Let’s focus on healing,” she said.

David’s recovery was slow but steady. During this time, Jenny’s family rallied around them. Her father visited the hospital often, bringing home-cooked meals. Her brother, though hesitant, helped David with errands once he was discharged. Even her mother softened. “He’s trying to make amends,” she acknowledged.

As David regained his strength, he and Jenny began to rebuild their relationship. They promised each other honesty and teamwork. “No more secrets,” Jenny said. David agreed. “We’ll face everything together from now on.”

In one month, Jenny’s life had transformed. Her journey was a testament to resilience and the power of family. Through challenges and reconciliation, she rediscovered the strength of love and support that anchored her—just like the sea that surrounded her hometown.

Rethinking Beauty

Compassion and Authenticity.
Lets delve into a topic that touches us all: our perception of beauty, both within and without.
As the Bible verse in Ephesians reminds us, “No-one ever hated their own body.” Yet, we all know this truth can be challenged by the harsh realities of our world.

Eating disorders, self-loathing, and societal pressures to conform to narrow beauty standards – these are the battles many wage against their own reflections. And while spiritual leaders preach the importance of inner beauty, sometimes their actions or words contradict their message.

The minister’s light-hearted banter about his family’s looks, while intended to ease us into his sermon, inadvertently reinforced the media’s obsession with outward appearances.

It can leave a jarring disconnect between the message of inner virtue and the speaker’s seemingly superficial values.

Similarly, jokes about baldness or physical imperfections, however well-meaning, can inflict genuine pain on those struggling with self-image.

Imagine if the speaker’s family faced physical challenges – would his humour carry the same weight? Perhaps not.

This disconnect between words and actions, this artificiality in the face of real human struggles, raises a crucial question: are these messages truly reaching our hearts, or simply echoing the values of the secular world?

If Christian speakers themselves succumb to the tyranny of outer beauty, what hope is there for the rest of us bombarded by media’s unrealistic ideals?

Here’s a challenge: instead of focusing on fleeting appearances, let’s shift our gaze inward. Ask yourself, “Am I a good person?”

The answer won’t lie in external validation, but in the quiet depths of your actions, your choices, your compassion for yourself and others.

Saving a life is a noble act, but true goodness can shine in countless everyday moments: a patient ear lent to a friend, a kind word to a stranger, a small act of service that ripples outward, touching lives unseen.

Let’s move beyond the superficial and celebrate the inner beauty that makes us all unique, flawed, and wonderfully human.

Let’s practice what we preach, with empathy, authenticity, and the unwavering belief that true beauty lies not in skin-deep perfection, but in the depths of our compassionate hearts.

Judging by appearances is easy, but embracing the complexities of inner beauty takes courage. Together, let’s choose compassion over critique, authenticity over artifice, and build a world where inner beauty illuminates not just our faces, but our very souls.

Thank you.

 

The Double Standard: Good Deeds vs. Good People

We cling to ideals of good people doing good deeds, yet we celebrate athletic prowess over personal morals. We laud second chances for troubled stars, conveniently ignoring the real motive – profit, not compassion.

Here in Brisbane, we marvel at Sarina, the self-made woman rubbing shoulders with global icons and Bill Clinton. Yet, we whisper about her unwavering admiration for a man stained by scandal. The question lingers: which measuring stick do we wield when judging character?

We, as fallible humans, stumble, make mistakes, and crave redemption. Politicians spin narratives, hiding misdeeds in a flurry of rhetoric. But are we, in our messy complexities, ever truly defined by a single act?

Christianity, in its radical grace, proposes an alternative. Salvation, it whispers, hinges not on a lifetime of spotless deeds, but on a single, heartfelt choice. No rigorous merit tests, just faith – a leap, an embrace of belief.

Consider the thief crucified beside Jesus. No saint, he committed a crime, yet found solace in the final moments. Jesus, in his boundless mercy, extended paradise not to the flawless, but to the remorseful.

This is the crux of the matter. Salvation is not earned through endless good deeds, but offered freely through one decisive act of faith. Every sinner stands an equal chance at redemption.

The prison guard’s observation paints a stark picture. Those in jail for accidental tragedies, condemned for a single, fateful moment, stand in stark contrast to the celebrated sports stars forgiven for much worse. Is justice truly served when past good deeds are eclipsed by one misstep?

Christianity offers a different path. It embraces the totality of our being, the good and the bad, and judges us not by the sum of our actions, but by the sincerity of our faith. One choice, one whispered “yes” to Jesus, washes away a lifetime of mistakes.

This is the true good news. No matter how much you’ve stumbled, no matter how far you’ve strayed, the door to grace remains open. A single act of faith, a surrender to love, is all it takes to be deemed not guilty, not by your own merits, but by the infinite mercy of God.

So, rejoice!

The bar is not set impossibly high. We, the flawed and the fallible, can grasp at salvation.
Let us choose faith, let us embrace forgiveness, and let us step into the light, not as perfect beings, but as forgiven sinners, ready to walk the path of goodness, one imperfect step at a time.

Thank you, and may God bless you all.

www.tonyegar.com

 

Good Leadership

Do You Need to make a Decision?

Today I felt to pray and support our leaders.
This is not always a popular suggestion or topic.
Hebrews 13:17 tells us to have confidence in our leaders.
Because they keep watch over us.
And 1 Thessalonians 5:13 says;
“Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work.”

Today I felt that Gods heart is very much for his leader’s and for his people.
May I encourage you not to fret, or be fainthearted.
Our leaders need us to stand with them shoulder to shoulder, to rise up and to cheer them on.

Our leaders need our support, prayers and encouragement so their work will be a joy and not a burden.
We are to hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work.

In some forests the trees are far apart.
But under the ground the roots are joined together.
These days some of us feel so far from our leaders.
We don’t think that what happens to them affects us in our normal daily life.
But underneath all that’s going on in our lives and around the world, we are still connected to our leaders.

Surprise, surprise!

Behind the scene we are all connected.

Together we can ask God to help us put our confidence in our leaders.
Let us acknowledge them, their position and their authority to lead.
In doing this there is a great reward.
Because we all benefit from good leadership.
It will be to our advantage and profit, if God blesses our leaders with the wisdom they need. And the moral strength to make right decisions.
We all agree that right decisions lead to a better life.

Let us make a straight and smooth path for our leaders by praying for them.
And speaking well of them so they can proceed with boldness and confidence.
Then they will be equipped to point us in the right direction moving forward.

Perhaps you are a leader who has experienced a lack of support.
And your journey has been a lonely one.
You may feel disappointed and your confidence appears to have vanished.

People are praying for you right now, they are depending on you and looking to you to lead them.
You are not alone.

Don’t throw away your confidence.
Put your cloak back on, it’s time to lead.
Confidence looks good on you!

When you make a heart decision to rise up and lead.
God will anoint you with fresh fire.
You will run into a new level of strong leadership.

Written by Lorna Egar.

I hope you have been encouraged by this word.
And that it has released a gift of grace into your situation.

God bless from Lorna.