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Redding’s Untold Stories: Courage in Marriage

Redding, nestled between mountain ranges and the Sacramento River, has always thrived on the land around it. In the 1950s, the town’s life changed forever. A dam was built, bringing workers from all over. Whiskeytown and Keswick followed, turning the place into a hub for industry. The lumber business grew alongside it, with the sound of saws filling the air. People moved here for the jobs, and Redding continued to grow.

In the 1960s, new roads were laid down. Interstate 5 cut through the town, connecting it to the rest of the state. Tourism came in waves. Travelers marveled at the lakes formed by the dams. Boats glided across the water. Some stayed, buying land, building homes. The town stretched east across the Sacramento River, swallowing up Enterprise. Electricity from the dam was cheap. The people voted for annexation, hungry for savings.

The 1970s brought hard times. The lumber mills struggled. Demand slowed, and the trees themselves were protected. By the 1990s, mills shut down, workers lost their jobs. The Spotted Owl had a habitat to keep, and it was the trees. The town went quiet. Redding had to reinvent itself. And it did.

In the late 1980s, retail and housing boomed. Construction companies thrived again. Families came looking for a fresh start. By the mid-1990s, the town had found its feet. New businesses lined the streets. The days of the lumber mills were gone, but Redding stood tall, reshaped by change.

But this town had more stories than just industry. It had people, and the quiet acts of courage that often went unnoticed. There was a man named James and a woman named Martha who lived on the edge of town. They weren’t loud or proud, but they had a heart for others. People knew them, but not too well.

One summer, a woman named Sarah came to them. Her face was bruised, her hands shaking. She had come from a nearby town. Her marriage was bad. Her husband, Paul, was a hard man. He worked in the mills before they shut down. When the work dried up, so did Paul’s patience. His anger turned on Sarah, and it wasn’t long before she had nowhere to go.

James and Martha took her in. They didn’t ask too many questions. Sarah sat at their kitchen table, eyes down, tears falling.

“Stay as long as you need,” Martha said.

James nodded. “You’re safe here.”

Weeks went by. Sarah slowly found her strength. The bruises healed, but her spirit was still tender. Martha showed her how to tend the garden, how to care for the chickens. Simple things. Each day, Sarah grew quieter, more peaceful. But fear lingered in the back of her mind. Paul would come looking. She knew it.

One evening, Sarah sat outside, watching the sun dip behind the hills. Martha joined her.

“He’ll come,” Sarah whispered.

Martha looked out at the horizon. “Maybe.”

“What will I do?” Sarah’s voice broke.

Martha didn’t answer right away. She let the silence settle. Finally, she spoke. “Strength comes in knowing you’ve survived.”

Sarah looked at her, uncertain.

“When he comes, you’ll know what to do,” Martha said. “You’ll stand.”

James walked up to them. He’d heard the conversation. “If he comes, we’ll be here. But you’ve already done the hard part.”

And so, Sarah waited. A week passed. Then two. Nothing. She started to believe she might be free.

Then, one night, there was a knock at the door. James opened it. Paul stood there, fists clenched, eyes wild.

“I’m here for my wife,” he growled.

James stood firm, his hands at his sides. “She’s not leaving.”

Paul took a step forward, but James didn’t move. Martha stood behind him, watching.

Paul’s eyes flicked to Sarah, standing in the doorway, no longer hiding. He expected fear, but saw something else.

“You coming?” he barked.

Sarah shook her head. “No.”

Paul’s face twisted in anger, but then something changed. He stared at Sarah, seeing her for the first time. Not the woman he had tried to control, but someone different. Someone strong. His shoulders sagged.

Without another word, Paul turned and walked away. Sarah didn’t watch him go. She closed the door softly.

“You stood,” Martha said.

Sarah nodded, her voice steady. “I did.”

The town went on. Redding grew and changed, shaped by forces bigger than anyone could control. But in the quiet corners of the town, where no one was looking, people found their own kind of strength. People like Sarah. And like the town, she too was reshaped, not by the weight of her past, but by the quiet resolve she found within herself.

As the years passed, the story of the dams and the highways would be told over and over, but no one would ever know about Sarah. No one, except James, Martha, and one other.

Barbara’s Idea for Her Marriage

Barbara sat at her desk in the Hobart office, tapping away at her keyboard.
The Tasmanian autumn sun streamed through the window, casting a warm glow on her workspace.
It was nearly lunchtime, and Barbara looked forward to her daily break with Rose.
They had developed a pleasant routine of eating lunch together, sharing stories about their lives and work.

As noon approached, Barbara grabbed her lunch and headed to the break room.
Rose was already there, setting out her meal.
They exchanged smiles and settled into their usual spots.

“How was your weekend, Rose?” Barbara asked, genuinely curious.

Rose beamed. “Oh, it was wonderful. Church was especially moving this week. The sermon was about giving to World Vision.
The pastor spoke about how giving to the poor brings blessings into your life.”

Barbara nodded politely.
She had grown used to Rose’s church anecdotes, finding them both interesting and inspiring.
“That sounds lovely,” she said.

Rose leaned in, her voice softening. “You know, Barbara, since I started giving to the poor, my marriage has improved so much.
My husband and I are closer than ever.
It’s like a blessing for our relationship.”

Barbara felt a twinge of curiosity.
Her own marriage had hit a rough patch recently.
There was love, but the spark seemed to be fading.
She wondered if there might be some truth to Rose’s words.

The rest of the week passed quickly.
Barbara mulled over the idea of giving to the poor.
By Friday, she decided to sponsor a child in Africa through World Vision.
She filled out the necessary forms, feeling a strange sense of hope and anticipation.

The following week, Barbara noticed a subtle shift at home.
Her husband, Michael, seemed more attentive and affectionate.
He asked about her day, offered to help with dinner, and even suggested they go for a walk together.
Barbara was amazed at the transformation.

During their next lunch break, Barbara shared her experience with Rose.
“I took your advice and started sponsoring a child through World Vision,” she said. “
And you won’t believe it, but Michael’s attitude has changed completely.
He’s more loving and considerate.”

Rose smiled knowingly. “That’s wonderful, Barbara.
It’s amazing how helping others can bring blessings into our own lives.”

Barbara couldn’t help but wonder if there was some unseen force at work.
She had always believed in kindness and generosity, but this felt different.
It was as if someone or something was helping her and Michael find their way back to each other.

Over the next few weeks, Barbara continued to notice positive changes in her marriage.
She and Michael communicated more openly and found joy in each other’s company again.
She felt more passionate about her relationship and less frustrated by the little things that used to bother her.

Barbara started to read “Improve Your Marriage In Six Speed Weeks,” a book Rose had recommended.
The book emphasized proper communication, understanding your partner’s love language, and keeping the romance alive.
Barbara practiced these new skills, and her marriage blossomed even more.

“Do you want to improve your marriage without going to therapy or counselling, and still get the results you are craving?” the book began.
Barbara was sceptical at first but found the advice practical and effective.
“Are you looking for a more passionate relationship?
Do you sometimes feel like your partner doesn’t love you?
Are you often frustrated because you can’t express yourself fully?”
The questions resonated deeply with her.

By the fourth week, Barbara felt a renewed sense of connection with Michael. They spent more quality time together, shared their dreams and fears, and supported each other in ways they hadn’t in years.
She marvelled at how a simple act of kindness had transformed her life.

Reflecting on her journey, Barbara realized that being a good wife wasn’t about outdated notions or servitude.
It was about being kind, perceptive, and sympathetic, while also receiving the same level of support and attention from her spouse.
Her marriage had become a partnership based on shared goals and mutual respect.

Barbara knew that marriage would always have its challenges, but she felt confident in their ability to navigate them together.
She was grateful for Rose’s friendship and the lessons she had learned.
And as she looked forward to the future, Barbara knew that her marriage would remain constant and vibrant, filled with the warmth and love she had always desired.

A fictional story.

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My Secret of Driving Backwards

My Secret of Driving Backwards.
I first discovered my desire for driving backwards while driving the tractor on my family’s farm.
When I saw someone driving a car backwards on a public road I was shocked.
There were other people just like me.
People who feel like me.

I decided to tell my parents about my secret.
They were not happy.
They told me it was illegal to drive backwards.
So I became politically active.
Our numbers grew and finally we got the law changed.
Society also changed their attitude.
We were no longer told we were wrong.
It was no longer a sin.

Even some religious people and their leaders accepted us.
What a weak response they had.
They knew their Book forbids driving backwards.
So they just ignored what was in their Book.
If their God is real why is he so relaxed about our behaviour?
It seemed like everyone was okay with what we do.
We started to influence young drivers to consider driving backwards.
The media gave us a lot of attention because we were interesting.
We seemed to be everywhere.

But the conservatives opposed us all the way.
They said it was, “not natural to drive backwards”.
They said,” cars were designed to be driven forwards”.
They said there was a judgement day.
We did not care.
We all agreed we could do anything we wanted.
When we wanted and how we wanted.
Our argument was, “We love to drive backwards”.
How can something you love be wrong?
If you love it…it must be okay.

The conservatives said there will be more accidents.
But we replied, “We will drive carefully”.
If we respect their right to drive forwards, shouldn’t they respect our right to drive backwards?
Now the car makers were making cars that could go either way.
What a victory we were enjoying.
Everyone was congratulating us for standing up for our rights.

In the middle of this wonderful atmosphere, I decided to check the facts about car design.
I looked up the history of cars and found a man called Henry Ford.
He was credited with being the father of the modern car.
I discovered that all cars were originally designed to be driven forwards.
This made me think about the negative results of driving backwards.
First of all it takes a lot of effort.
I did have a sore neck and back.
It was hard to drive that way after the initial thrill wore off.

One day Mr Ford visited me in a dream and told me to repent before I wasted my life going the wrong way.
Here is what he said, “Some people don’t like… the number 13.
When they build high rise buildings they call the thirteenth floor number 14.
But that does not change which floor is really the thirteenth floor.
It just changes the name.”

When I woke up I realised Mr Ford was giving me a message.
No matter how hard you try… you cannot make driving backwards normal even if you call it normal.
Changing the law does not make an unnatural lifestyle…natural.

You cannot argue against the original design.
Driving backward will always be abnormal.
I do not want to admit it, but even though I like driving backwards.

I knew in my heart of hearts that something was wrong.
But I had built my house of cards and I was not going to repent.

In the end I decided that I could live a lie… as long as everyone around me supported that lie.

The truth is very unpopular at the moment.
Even some of the religious folk have turned away from their Book.
And voted for a lie.

Written by Number 13.